
It All Started ....
The SELF-Ex™ Method was born from pain we couldn’t ignore.
We end up creating a method to design superheroes.
It started with stories. Kids being locked in bathrooms,
humiliated at lunch, excluded from games. But the deeper
wound came from the silence of adults who failed to act.
We, a mother-daughter team, launched Deeds by Kids™ to give
those children a voice. Through over 400 stories, we uncovered
a tragic pattern: kids didn’t know how to respond to bullying,
exclusion, or injustice with clarity and confidence.
That pain sparked the creation of the SELF-Ex™ Method—a
5-step framework and toolkit that empowers kids, parents, and
educators to lead with purpose, advocate for themselves, and
transform adversity into strength.
WHAT IS THE SELF-EX™ METHOD?
FRAMEWORK
A leadership and self-advocacy framework designed to empower
kids, parents, and educators.
- Address bullying, adversity, and injustice with clarity & confidence
- Make responsible, values-based decisions
- Regulate emotions and resolve conflicts
- Transform pain into personal power & social impact
SELF-Ex stands for:
S – Set Purpose
E – Evaluate the Situation
L – Lead with Best Option
F – Formulate & Forge Ahead
Ex – Examine Outcomes

GLOBAL RECOGNITION
Honored By The ReOpen Education Global Challenge
In July 2021, SELF-Ex™ was selected by the USC Rossier School of Education’s Center EDGE, in partnership with the Andrew Nikou Foundation and IDEO, as one of the top solutions for educational transformation. The ReOpen Challenge spotlighted innovations that reimagined education during COVID-19 and beyond. SELF-Ex™ stood out among 300+ entries for:
- Elevating student voice
- Promoting meaningful learning
- Creating a culture of respect and responsibility
IMPACT SINCE THE AWARD
SINCE ITS RECOGNITION, THE SELF-EX™ METHOD HAS:
- Reached over 1,000+ students, parents, and educators
- Featured in bullying prevention programs and leadership training
- Supported Jewish and marginalized students facing antisemitism,
exclusion, and bias - Been implemented across K-12 schools, colleges, and family
workshops

WHY THE AWARD MATTERS
From Reflection to Responsible Action
The SELF-Ex™ Method transforms moments of adversity into leadership
opportunities. It helps individuals align their Objectives, Needs, and
Expectations (ONE™) and build the resilience to lead themselves and others
with intention.
This method is more than a framework—it’s shaping a resilient and results-
oriented mindset. Leveraging obstacles into opportunities to realize optimal
outcomes.
- Objectives
- Needs
- Expectations
NOMINATE A CHANGEMAKER
Do you know someone making a difference?
PAST HONOREES (COMING SOON)
Celebrating Our Changemakers
Stay tuned for inspiring stories of those using the SELF-Ex™ Method to lead change in their schools, homes, and communities.
HONOREE COMING SOON
Story to be published soon.
HONOREE COMING SOON
Story to be published soon.
HONOREE COMING SOON
Story to be published soon.
SHARE YOUR STORY
YOU’RE NOT ALONE. LET’S SPEAK UP™ CAN HELP.
Have you or someone you love experienced bullying,
exclusion, or injustice?

BRING SELF-EX™ TO YOUR SCHOOL, TEAM, OR COMMUNITY
LET’S TRANSFORM ADVERSITY INTO LEADERSHIP—ONE
VOICE AT A TIME.

STAY CONNECTED
- New award cycles
- Leadership workshops
- Tools and training updates

