SELF-EX Wins an Award for Transformative Educational Solutions
“In response to the COVID-19 challenges facing students the USC Center EDGE, Andrew Nikou Foundation, and IDEO formed The Education (Re)Open challenge, aimed to develop the Education Solutions [...]
If you can’t say something nice, say nothing at all! Really?
What can Thumper teach Trump? Did Trump read the story Bambi? I’m not sure if New Yorkers read the story of Bambi, they might have, but certainly did not adopt Thumper’s philosophy. However, [...]
She was 17. He Was 46. La Costa Canyon High School
A former La Costa Canyon High student says that during her senior year, she had a months-long sexual relationship with one of her teachers. The school investigated the teacher at the time, but [...]
School Officials ‘Pass the Trash’ Practice
School officials and district employs 'Pass the Trash' practice that emboldens offenders and endangers students! WITHOUT WARNING SYSTEM, SCHOOLS OFTEN ‘PASS THE TRASH’ — AND EXPOSE KIDS TO [...]
How Predatory Teachers Stay on the Job
The Sweetwater Union High School District in Chula Vista investigated a male teacher last year for sexual misconduct following reports made by at least three students. After the investigation [...]
The Pervasive Drug Abuse by our Students
According to the 2017 Healthy Kids Survey, “ … approximately 11.3% of the seniors at LCC reported using LSD, 74% alcohol, almost 60% marijuana, and over 60% vaping devices. Reports from Torrey [...]
Our Student Voices: We’re imprisoned
Intrigued by my campaign message to "Empower Students," another District student stopped by to talk with me. She preferred I did not use her real name for fear of retaliation so, for purposes of [...]
The Student Perspective: Isolated, Ashamed and Bullied
This past weekend, while campaigning at our local Einstein's Bagels, I was approached by a Torrey Pines' senior. The student was a registered voter and wanted to know more about my campaign [...]
When will it be true?
“We can't keep brushing over this shit. it's not ok. If something bad happens at school, We should be able to talk about it, We should be heard and supported. We say mental health is a [...]
CPRA: CA Public Records Requests Act Sample Letters
Sample Letter Public Records Request Source: https://firstamendmentcoalition.org/public-records-2/sample-cpra-request-letter/ Date Name and Title (of the official with custody of the [...]
Know Your Rights: Harshly and Unfairly Graded
Education Code 49066 govern grades. Do you believe that the grade your received had a clerical or mechanical mistake, fraud, bad faith, or incompetency? You have a recourse!
Know Your Rights: Retaliation is an OCR Violation
Discriminatory practices are often only raised and remedied when students, parents, teachers, coaches, and others can report such practices to school administrators without the fear of [...]
Offenders Are Victims of Institutional Cover-Up
Cover Ups Deprive Offenders from Path to Recovery Betrayal comes at a steep cost not only to the victim of abuse, but to the offender as well. For the victim, the harm is obvious; he or she is [...]
Accomplices Betray Victims, Offenders, & Their Own Organizations
A Paradigm Shift - Practical Solution If we want everyone to be better off--victims, institutions, and offenders alike--we must take immediate action from the onset when misconduct is reported [...]
Transforming Conflict to Build a Trustworthy Organization
“Without trust, we cannot face the difficult challenges in our world today.” -Antonio Guterres, UN Secretary General When you think of a trustworthy organization, what is the first thing that [...]
The Shipwreck of Institutional Betrayal: Why Individuals Self-Harm & Harm-Others
The desire to harm. Why do individuals--like you and me--gain some visceral urge to inflict pain upon themselves or on others? We aren’t born with it. To harm yourself and to harm others lie in [...]
Why Transparency Leads to Accountability
Story Highlights: A lack of transparency decreases productivity and trust, makes creating smart decisions difficult, and increases liability for organizations. Through ensuring transparency [...]
Meaningful Accountability Beyond a Lame “I’m Sorry”
Empowering others to combat bullying, harassment, and sexual assault is a cause I have been passionate about for many years now. Bullying was never something that I personally struggled with. As [...]
School Officials Cover Up Practices
Detrimental practices of sexual assault cover ups to drain parents and victims: deflect, delay, discredit, defame, demean, disparage...
Recall to Resignation
What can you do to make your recall successful? I would like to share with you the strong arguments we used to push for her resignation. A resignation is greatly preferred as you do not have to [...]
Recall Process, Resources, and Budget
Following publication of Recall to Resignation, many community members requested additional information on the recall process as it relates to their school board members. We have learned that [...]
SELF-EX Wins an Award for Transformative Educational Solutions
“In response to the COVID-19 challenges facing students the USC Center EDGE, Andrew Nikou Foundation, and IDEO formed The Education (Re)Open challenge, aimed to develop the Education Solutions [...]
Special Interest Groups at SDUHSD
Endless power struggles and political infighting on the San Dieguito Union High School District Board of Trustees have deteriorated the well-being of our students and robbed the community of [...]
Gratitude: Do you reciprocate or feel entitled?
Thanksgiving season is a time to reflect on being grateful to our friends and family, and to appreciate what we have so we can lead happier lives. “Who is rich? The one who is happy in his lot.” [...]
Put Students First? Disingenuous Rhetoric!
School board trustees are supposed to be apolitical. Trustees are entrusted to serve students' best interests. However, repeatedly the SDUHSD, San Dieguito Union High School District, school [...]
May It Be God’s Will and Why Not Your Will?
School board trustees are supposed to be apolitical. Trustees are entrusted to serve students' best interests. However, repeatedly the SDUHSD, San Dieguito Union High School District, school [...]
Guide, Don’t Ground!
As a mother, since Sabrina was five, I sought to create a constructive conflict resolution process for us. I did not believe in punishment or the traditional method of ‘grounding.’ Rather, I [...]
The 4 Core Competencies to Boost Mental Health
Mental health improves when each one of us takes personal responsibility to engage in healthy and constructive behaviors
A Message from the Author of MY MOTHER’S MIRROR
Becoming a published author ignites some strange sensation, one so special then when I hold the weight of 500 or so pages that I've written, I feel as full as the front cover is to the back. It's [...]
The Bond, Betrayal, and Bountiful of Thanksgiving
The story of Thanksgiving reminds us of the historical context and relationships between the pilgrims and Native Americans, threaded by loyalty and betrayal, trust and distrust. Thanksgiving is a [...]
“Willful Defiance” is Banned from Education Codes! Yet, Schools Use it to Justify Expulsions
Guide to 'Willful Defiance': Has your student been accused of 'willful defiance'? Know that 'willful defiance' has been banned from Education Codes! Yet, school administrators use it to justify [...]
The Kotel’s Note Sparks a Spiritual Connection of the Creation Story, Wellness, and Wholeness
This article draws inspiration from a personal revelation during a recent visit to Jerusalem, discovering the profound link between the Hebrew word for “creation” and concepts such as wellness, [...]
Hate Crimes Federal Law: Title 18 U.S.C. § 241-249 (2021)
18 U.S.C. § 245: This statute makes it a crime to use, or threaten to use force to willfully interfere with any person because of race, color, religion, or national origin and because the person [...]
Protected Hate Speech? Only If it does not interfere …
A hate incident is an action or behavior motivated by hate, which, for various reasons, is not considered a crime. Examples of hate incidents include: Name-calling Insults Displaying hate [...]
Differences Between Hate Speech and Hate Crimes
How to know if it is Hate Crime: Is the offender targeting the victim or property because they belonged to a protected group? Does the victim belong to one of the following protected groups? [...]
Where to Report Hate Speech and Hate Crimes
It is important to file complaints with appropriate authorities and agencies: Campus Antisemitism Legal Line: (CALL) https://www.legal-protection.org Anti-Defamation League: [...]
School Officials and District Culture: Protecting Offenders and Traumatizing Victims!
"The failure of U.S. schools to protect students from sexual abuse by school personnel is a story of school administrators and district cover-ups, lack of training, incomplete teacher background [...]
Risks and Rewards in Speaking Up
"I lost my church. I lost my closest friends as a result of advocating for survivors who had been victimized by similar institutional failures in my own community. I lost every shred of privacy. [...]
LOOKING BEYOND PRESTIGE: PRIVATE VS. PUBLIC EDUCATION
In this era, excellence is often measured by reputation and appearances. Decisions are often made by the rumors that permeate the air and the gust of prestige some affluent families may look for. [...]
How to setup boundaries by making collaborative decisions
How to collaborate with your children to gain buy-in and make better decisions. Lead your children with their well-being and safety in mind. Social and peer pressure should be at the bottom of [...]
Let’s Speak Up Mission and Motivation
“No one should be afraid to speak up when children are bullied and violated,” said Lea Wolf, co-founder of Let’s Speak Up. “We need to empower children and become their voice when needed, so [...]
Assistant Principal Allegedly Failed to Protect Students from Sexual Assault
Assistant Principal Who Allegedly Failed to Protect Students from Sexual Assault May Be Hired to Lead CVMS, Really
Student is sexually assaulted by her teacher
Ashly McGlone, from the Voice of San Diego, reports the “student … was having a sexual relationship with a teacher … when school officials confronted her during her senior year … they were [...]
Mandated Reporters!
School officials and personnel fail to protect children despite extensive federal and state laws guiding them to report incidents of discrimination, assault, bullying and abuse. By law, they are [...]
When Can We Expect Positive Changes?
Something that is crystal clear to me is that conflict arises from problems that are ignored, dismissed, and mismanaged. The solution, no matter the challenge is to face problems head-on and [...]
Find Your Nearest Polling Location
Find your nearest polling location. Get out and vote to make a difference in your community! You have the power to initiate change.
A Conflict of Interest
For 7-years, former teachers’ union president, Bob Croft, was employed by the District but did not teach in the classroom. Croft was paid a full teacher’s salary from school funds to the extent [...]
In a word…”LEADERSHIP”
Our Board lacks accountability, transparency, and integrity. The Board's majority has made many poor decisions. Backed by special interest groups, the Board has made reckless decisions that [...]
Our Commitment to Students
“Taxpayers and students need an independent representative who will look out for their interests… a parent of a district student…with fresh ideas. Lea is an outspoken voice for students and [...]
Roles and Responsibilities of Board Trustees
Board responsibilities include setting direction, establishing an effective and efficient structure. providing support, ensuring accountability and providing community leadership as advocates for [...]
What does it mean to Empower Students?
To empower students means to see the world from their perspective, to provide guidance, tools and the opportunity to learn from struggle, challenge, and mistakes—all done with patience and [...]
Special Relationship Between Teachers’ Union and School Boards
Currently, three of the five Board Members on the San Dieguito Union High School District are Union funded and controlled by the Union. Here are some excerpts from Marsha Sutton of the Del Mar [...]
Attend to Students’ Needs: A Whole Student Counts!
It's time to transform our school systems to focus on students' well-being, life skills, critical thinking, problem solvers, and continuous improvement systems.
What ever happened to civility in politics?
From the onset, I began to receive anonymous emails that my signs are an “eyesore to the community” and “how dare you have the nerve to trash up our community with your obnoxious signs?” Then [...]
NextDoor Leads Aligned with Teachers Union
Thanks for contacting us about this issue. We temporarily restricted your Nextdoor account after we received a complaint regarding your recent content and found that you had violated our [...]
WOW! Revealing Review of Former SDUHSD Employee
"Super strong union president who is nicknamed the unofficial board member who is often in cahoots with admin on the sly to maintain their side deals. This means that bad teachers can be really [...]
Freedom of Speech is Violated
Freedom of speech is violated, but current SDUHSD board members walk out...leadership? When attending the SDUHSD Board Meeting major issues arose ... Yesterday, on Thursday November 1st, I [...]
No Meaningful Change Occurs in the Absence of Conflict
Today, I take full ownership of the “storm” generated in the community! The storm emerged due to intense resistance to change status quo at SDUHSD. The storm, a.k.a. conflict, is a war of [...]
Untying the Ropes of Silence
Speaking up: an action that empowers, liberates, and instills confidence in us. Yet, strings interwoven with fear and anxiety chain us into our safe zone-- silence. These strings bind us, leaving [...]
SDUHSD Violates Freedom of Speech
During my attendance of SDUHSD Board Meeting with new leadership of Dr. Haley, I was shocked …The Board Walked Out… Four of the five current board members in attendance attempted to silence her [...]
CA Public Records Requests and Schools Cover Ups
According to CPRA, California Public Records Request Act, "the primary purpose is to give the public an opportunity to monitor the functioning of their government. The greater and more unfettered [...]
Stop Cover Up of Sexual Abuse! Stop Proposed Title IX!
On November 2011, as I watched the trial of Jerry Sandusky in disbelief, I was outraged. Physical and sexual abuse against vulnerable boys had occurred and school officials and coaches had [...]
National and Local Resources to Combat Abuse
#METOO POWERFUL NATIONAL AND LOCAL RESOURCES TO COMBAT ABUSE #Metoo movement powerful resources to [...]
From Horror to Hope
“Yesterday is not ours to recover but tomorrow is ours to win or lose.” Quote is taken from the movie Breakthrough
Know Your Rights: Opt-Out of CAASPP State Exams
Know Your Rights! Opt-Out from Exams this Week! Many students are stressed and ridden with anxiety with upcoming AP exams. Did you know you have the right to opt-out of SBACELA, [...]
Systemic Issues in Educational Institutions
On November 16th, 2018 the Department of Education issued a press release that the proposed Title IX rule “provides clarity for schools, support for survivors, and due process rights to all.” [...]
SELF-Ex Guide Awarded Top Educational Solution in the ReOpen Challenge
“In response to the COVID-19 challenges facing students the USC Center EDGE, Andrew Nikou Foundation, and IDEO formed The Education (Re)Open challenge, aimed to develop the Education Solutions [...]
Let’s Speak Up: Protect Your Child from Schools Officials Covert Practices
Recent investigations into various school districts reveal alarming patterns of misconduct, cover-ups, and violations of students' rights. The San Diego Unified School District (SDUSD) is a [...]
Is Your University Engaged in “Academic Malpractice at $80,000 a Year”?
Recent investigations into various school districts reveal alarming patterns of misconduct, cover-ups, and violations of students' rights. The San Diego Unified School District (SDUSD) is a [...]
Rosh Hashanah and High Holidays: Inspiration Ignites, Dedication Sustains
As the High Holidays draw near, Jewish communities around the world prepare to welcome the new year with renewed hope, courage, and unwavering dedication. The month of Elul, a time of deep [...]
The Impact of Institutional Cover-Ups: Urgent Call for Reform🚨
When schools cover up misconduct, victims endure years of trauma, offenders continue their abuse, and taxpayers and institutions bear the financial burden, while complicit officials evade [...]
True Love: The Will to Extend Oneself
Love is one of the most profound and celebrated aspects of human existence—both in our relationships with others and with ourselves. Yet, its true nature is often misunderstood. Many see love as [...]
What Went Wrong with Trump, Vance, and Zelensky? Beyond Cross-Cultural Bounds
The heated exchange between President Donald Trump, Vice President JD Vance, and Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelensky has sparked intense debate worldwide. While some focus on moral grounds and [...]
Why Israel Is NOT an Apartheid State – Exposing Academic Malpractice in Higher Education
Academic freedom is a cornerstone of higher education, but it is not a license to fabricate, distort, or promote falsehoods under the guise of scholarship. According to the U.S. Federal Research [...]
“Signalgate:” A Window into a Crisis of Character
Goldberg admitted he hesitated. “Do I stay in the group and watch it unfold, and say nothing, so no one can accuse me of anything?” he asked himself. He even wondered whether he had been added [...]
Passover: One Table. One Purpose. One People. One Fight for Freedom
🕯️ One Table. One People. One Fight for Freedom. Passover is not just a story we tell—it’s a stand we take. This year, we reflect through the theme: The ONE Journey of Personal Responsibility [...]